Monday, August 22, 2011
Losing your toy virginity
Remember that time you lost your virginity? Were you nervous? Scared? Excited? A little uncomfortable? Probably. Unless you experienced sex toys before real sex, it's possible, whether you're a man or a woman, that you felt the exact same way before trying your first toy as well.
If you are someone who's lost their virginity, but has never experienced sex toys before, I'll tell you one thing straight: it's not as big a deal as you make it.
You may be nervous because you think toys are bad for your health. Well think again. Sexologists and sex experts have researched that masturbation is good for you. And whether that involves your hand, your partner's hand, or a little (or big) silicone dildo, is completely irrelevant. Now, I'm not saying ALL masturbations practices are 100% safe and advised. For instance, sticking a 12-inch dildo into your anus may not exactly be healthy because it could cause fissures and infections. However, as a beginner, Edenfantasys offers lots of "beginner" toys that are simple and to the point. They're self-explanatory, so no need to feel pressure!
Do you think you'd feel uncomfortable, even ashamed to admit you use toys? EVERYONE MASTURBATES. You are not special. You are not as particular as you imagine. Everyone does it, so don't worry about it. If they think YOU'RE the freak, then it's their problem to begin with.
I was compensated with a Edenfantasys gift card for writing this post. I am an Eden Ambassador, not a reviewer. All thoughts are my honest opinions.